A Retreat for Couples Healing from Infidelity

Surviving to Thriving
After Infidelity

An Intimate Couples Weekend Intensive

Upcoming dates in Miami and New York City

The discovery of an infidelity is devastating

The pain of betrayal can feel like a tsunami, leaving you disoriented and adrift.

The emotional turmoil, the endless questions, the uncertainty about the future… it’s enough to make anyone feel hopeless

But there is hope. There is healing. Your relationship can emerge stronger, more vibrant than ever before.

Your relationship can be stronger after infidelity

At our retreat, you’ll gain the tools, guidance, and unwavering support you need to face the challenges head-on, rebuild trust, and rewrite your love story.

Welcome to a retreat meticulously crafted for couples in the throes of infidelity.

Expert guidance. Research based tools. Community. 

Dedicated focused healing time. 

You’ll get all of this and more at this unique retreat.

Space

Group sessions are led by Lauren Consul, a relationship expert and sex therapist who specializes in infidelity. You’ll learn, practice, and deepen your healing with research-based tools.

Time

Being away from your daily life and routine allows you to fully focus on healing. This dedicated time to your relationship without distractions amplifies and accelerates healing.

Community

Each day includes group sessions where you’ll connect and grow with other couples who just get it. You’ll build a community of support that can last long after the end of the retreat.

You’ll leave with workable solutions, deeper connection, and a positive future.

Communication Skill development

Develop skills to navigate vulnerability and communication.

Rebuilding Trust and Saftey

Learn tools and strategies for rebuilding trust and safety.

Cultivating Secure Attachment

Dive into attachment theory and develop skills to cultivate secure attachment.

identify & rewire Patterns

Rewire unhelpful subconscious beliefs and relational patterns.

Sexual Reconnection

Reconnect with sexual and physical intimacy building skills.

Inner Child Healing Work

Develop inner child awareness and
healing tools.

Intergnerational Trauma

Understand the impact of intergenerational trauma and cycle breaking tools.

Dating Your Partner

Learn how to date your partner again and create a new relationship together.

Client Testimonials

Upcoming
In-Person Retreats

February 2-4, 2024

Medellin, Colombia (FULL)

April 12-14, 2024

Miami, FL (FULL)

MAY 17-19, 2024

NEW YORK CITY, NY (FUll)

august 9-11, 2024

Miami, FL

Retreats are offered at various locations across the United States and in Central/South America. In order to maintain privacy, the exact location of the retreat will be shared once you inquire/register.

If you do not see a retreat in a location or on a date that works for you, please reach out. Lauren offers individualized private weekend retreats where she works with you on customizing a program on a date and location of your choosing.

Daily Itinerary

Friday

4:30 pm - 7:00 pm

WHAT TO EXPECT:

Welcome: Step into a haven of healing and hope. As you arrive, mingle with fellow couples in our welcoming space, enjoy light refreshments, and settle in for a transformative weekend. This is your chance to connect with others who understand your journey and begin building a supportive community.

Group Session: We'll jumpstart the retreat with a dynamic group session focused on forging a shared language and setting a strong foundation for the days ahead. Together, we'll explore the retreat's key themes, understand its structure, and get prepared to embark on this journey of healing.

SKILL DEVELOPMENT:

  • Build a shared vocabulary: We'll establish a common ground of understanding by defining key concepts and terminology related to infidelity recovery.
  • Essential skills for healing: Gain valuable tools for communication, trust-building, and emotional regulation, equipping you to navigate the challenges ahead.
  • Setting clear expectations: Get a comprehensive overview of the retreat schedule, activities, and goals, ensuring you know what to expect and maximizing your experience.
  • Saturday

    8:30 am - 6:30 pm

    WHAT TO EXPECT:

    Group Sessions: Foster a sense of community and shared understanding as you discuss key themes and learn valuable tools for navigating the recovery process.

    Breakout Sessions: Deepen your connection with your partner through guided exercises and facilitated discussions specifically tailored to your unique situation.

    Individual Reflection: Take dedicated time for personal reflection and journaling, allowing you to process your emotions and gain deeper insights.

    SKILL DEVELOPLMENT:

  • Embrace Your Inner Child: Uncover the roots of your patterns and behaviors by developing awareness of your inner child's wounds and needs. Learn powerful healing tools to nurture and empower your true self.
  • Untangle Past Trauma: Gain insight into how past family experiences have shaped your attachment style and impacted your personal and relational patterns. Break free from cycles and create healthier connections.
  • Secure Attachment, Stronger Bonds: Deepen your understanding of attachment styles and their influence on your relationships. Develop practical tools and strategies for building trust, strengthening communication, and fostering secure and fulfilling connections.
  • Navigate Infidelity's Impact: Gain a comprehensive understanding of how infidelity has affected each partner and the relationship as a whole. Explore the emotional landscape, navigate through complex feelings, and work towards healing and growth.
  • Find Strength in Shared Experiences: Connect with others who understand your journey. Share your challenges, celebrate your victories, and draw strength and inspiration from a supportive community.
  • SUNDAY

    9:00 am - 3:00 pm

    WHAT TO EXPECT:

    We continue with group sessions, breakout sessions, and individual reflection. The focus of today is moving forward and writing your story in order to build a new relationship together.

    SKILL DEVELOPMENT:

  • Embrace Your Inner Child: Uncover the roots of your patterns and behaviors by developing awareness of your inner child's wounds and needs. Learn powerful healing tools to nurture and empower your true self.
  • Untangle Past Trauma: Gain understanding into how past family experiences have shaped your attachment style and impacted your personal and relational patterns. Break free from cycles and create healthier connections.
  • Secure Attachment, Stronger Bonds: Deepen your understanding of attachment styles and their influence on your relationships. Develop practical tools and strategies for building trust, strengthening communication, and fostering secure and fulfilling connections.
  • Navigate Infidelity's Impact: Gain a comprehensive understanding of how infidelity has affected each partner and the relationship as a whole. Explore the emotional landscape, navigate through complex feelings, and work towards healing and growth.
  • Find Strength in Shared Experiences: Connect with others who understand your journey. Share your challenges, celebrate your victories, and draw strength and inspiration from a supportive community.
  • Is this retreat right for you?

    This retreat was created for couples where one and/or both partners engaged in sexual, emotional, and/or cyber infidelity. 

    It is for couples that want to make the relationship work, even if you aren’t sure if that’s possible.

    RETREAT DISCLAIMER
    This retreat is NOT therapy, nor is it a replacement for therapy. It is a coaching group made specifically for educational and support purposes only. Lauren is a therapist but attending this retreat is not, and does not create, a therapeutic relationship with Lauren. Lauren strongly recommends that you participate in therapy before, during, or after you attend the retreat as therapy allows you to expand on what you learn at the retreat. Therapy allows for deep processing of past experiences that help you move forward in a healthy manner. This retreat is education based coaching and is NOT therapy.

    Your Investment

    Option 1:    Pay in full 30 days or more before the retreat start date: $3000 

    Pay in full less than 30 days before the retreat start date $3200

    Option 2:   Pay in 3 installments of $1100

    Price is per couple not per person.

    *One greatly reduced rate scholarship spot is available per retreat for a couple where the full investment is prohibitive of attending. Please contact Lauren at [email protected] for more information.  

    What's included

    • Pre-retreat virtual couple coaching session to identify goals and strategies to set you up for a successful weekend
    • 3 days of specialized educational group support, materials, and activities to expedite your healing
    • One-on-one guidance from Lauren throughout the retreat
    • Catered lunch on Saturday & Sunday
    • Personalized coffee and pastries on Saturday and Sunday morning
    • Water, coffee, and light refreshments will be available throughout the weekend
    • Post-retreat virtual group session to support continued progress

    What's not included

    • Accommodations
    • Airfare and/or transportation
    • Travel insurance
    • Any food or beverages outside of the provided meals 
    • Additional activities, treatments, or services not explicitly stated

    Frequently Asked Questions

    An intensive retreat can provide a similar amount of progress as 6-9 months of healing work. A dedicated weekend to healing can accelerate your progress in a short amount of time.

    This retreat is NOT therapy. It is a wonderful addition to your therapy (which we highly recommend you engage in therapy before and after the retreat). This retreat is coaching, and focused on education and support. You’re going to learn a lot, develop tools, and deepen your relationship.

    Couples where either or both partners engaged in sexual, emotional, and/or cyber infidelity and are staying in the relationship or are deciding whether to stay. We welcome participants from all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship structures.

    Retreats are offered at various locations across the United States and Central and South America. In order to maintain privacy, the exact location of the retreat will be shared once you register for a particular city.

    Lauren offers individualized weekend retreats. Please contact her to create a customized retreat location and date.

    In order to create an intimate and safe healing environment we keep the retreat very small and limit participation to a maximum of 3-4 couples.

    No, the retreat is not based in any faith nor does it have any religious affiliation. 

    Are ready to do the work?
    If so, what are you waiting for?

    Time alone won’t make things better; however, guided and committed action can give you the best chance at healing.

    If you aren’t ready to commit to a group retreat, you might want to still consider getting the benefits of group support through one of my Virtual Retreats or my Online Infidelity Support Groups

    Are you interested in attending Surviving to Thriving After Infidelity?

    After submitting the form below Lauren will follow-up with you to schedule a free 30-minute consultation to share more about the retreat, and answer your questions so we can determine if it is a good mutual fit. 

    Schedule an Appointment

    About Me

    My expertise is in relational intelligence and helping people build the secure and fulfilling relationships they desire.

    Therapy Services

    My work is focused on healing inner child wounds, repairing relational bonds, and helping people work through their physical and emotional challenges in order to improve their sex lives.

    Surviving to Thriving After Infidelity

    My retreats are designed to combine the benefits of physical and emotional relaxation with rejuvenation focused activities, connection, and skill building to help you deal with what has been weighing on you most.

    Support Groups

    Connecting with a group of people who feel like you do, led by a licensed therapist, can help you feel less isolated, judged, and lonely. 

    Free Gratitude Journal Download

    In preparation for the release of my full-length gratitude journal for couples, I am giving away a downloadable preview copy of The Bound Journal, 7-Days of Gratitude to those that sign up to my newsletter

    The link to your download will be sent to the email you use to subscribe to my Great Full Days newsletter.