Meet
Zaray Dratch

Relationship Repair & Intimacy Specialist

Something broke. Or maybe it’s been breaking slowly for years and you’ve just been holding it together.

You’re exhausted from pretending things are fine, having the same fight, or carrying something you can’t say out loud.

Zaray Dratch works with couples and individuals who are ready to stop surviving their relationship and start actually living in it.

Meet
Zaray Dratch

Something broke. Or maybe it’s been breaking slowly for years and you’ve just been holding it together.

You’re exhausted from pretending things are fine, having the same fight, or carrying something you can’t say out loud.

Zaray Dratch works with couples and individuals who are ready to stop surviving their relationship and start actually living in it.

Who Zaray Works With

Zaray works with individuals and couples who:
  • Have been through a betrayal and don’t know what comes next
  • Feel more like roommates than partners
  • Have lost touch with their own desire or sense of self
  • Want to talk about sex but haven’t found the space to do it
  • Are carrying something they’ve never said out loud
  • Are LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, or first-gen and want a therapist who gets it
  • Are done managing and ready to change something

The work most couples avoid is exactly what we do here:

Relationships don’t break down all at once. They erode through the conversations that never happen, the distance that builds so slowly you stop noticing it, and the things that feel too complicated or too painful to say out loud. By the time most couples arrive, they’ve been managing it alone for a long time.

Zaray works with what’s underneath. Not just the presenting problem, but the patterns driving it. The cycle you keep returning to. The rupture that never fully healed. The intimacy that disappeared and nobody knows how to get back. Together, you slow it down, look at it directly, and start building something that actually holds.

 

Her style:

Warm, Direct, Unhurried, Unflinching

Zaray helps individuals and couples interrupt the patterns that feel automatic or inevitable, creating room for honesty, repair, and real connection. Her approach draws on how attachment history, relational wounds, and the stories we carry about ourselves shape the way we show up in conflict, intimacy, and love.

Drawing on the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Somatic approaches, she helps clients:

  • Break the cycles driving disconnection and conflict
  • Navigate betrayal and rebuild trust that actually feels safe
  • Reconnect physically and emotionally after a long drift
  • Say the thing that’s never been said, and find out what’s possible after

 

If you’ve been waiting for the right space to do this work, this is it.

A bit about her background:

Zaray’s route to this work ran through business, education, and years of direct work with families navigating real pressure and real change. That foundation shapes everything about how she practices. She understands complexity, she’s comfortable with ambiguity, and she connects with people across very different life experiences without losing sight of what they actually need.

Clients who come to her tend to be sharp, self-aware, and tired of surface-level answers. She meets them there.

She holds a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy from Touro University and a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from Mount Saint Mary College.

Zaray Dratch is a Limited Permit Marriage and Family Therapist supervised by Lauren Consul, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 002537) 

online support group facilitated by Piyola

Men, Unfiltered

A Group for Men Who Want More Authentic Conversations

Not a surface-level men’s group.

A space for real conversations about pressure, relationships, and the parts of life many men carry alone.

For men who are ready to move beyond isolation and show up more fully.

zaray's Specialties At-A-Glance:

  • Betrayal and affair recovery
  • Sexual disconnection and mismatched desire
  • Communication breakdown and conflict cycles
  • Emotional distance and intimacy loss
  • Anxiety, depression and PTSD
  • Sexual shame and avoidance
  • LGBTQ+ identity and relationship concerns
  • Intimacy after trauma
  • Desire, identity and self-worth
  • Rebuilding after a relationship rupture
  • Betrayal and affair recovery
  • Sexual disconnection and mismatched desire
  • Communication breakdown and conflict cycles
  • Emotional distance and intimacy loss
  • Anxiety, depression and PTSD
  • Sexual shame and avoidance
  • LGBTQ+ identity and relationship concerns
  • Intimacy after trauma
  • Desire, identity and self-worth
  • Rebuilding after a relationship rupture

Frequently Asked Questions

Confidentiality is the bedrock of the relationship between a client and therapist. Successful therapy requires a safe environment for you to feel comfortable opening up in order to address the underlying issues you are facing. Anything discussed during our session is not shared with anyone outside what is outlined in my Informed Consent, which all clients are required to agree to and sign before starting therapy. There may be times when you want me to share information with someone else, such as your physician. I can only share information with others with your consent, which requires you to sign a release of information.

State law and professional ethics require me to maintain confidentiality about what we discuss, except in a few specific instances:

  • If there is any suspected abuse or neglect of children, elders, or dependent adults, which may require a report to the appropriate protective services agency and/or law enforcement.
  • If you are in immediate danger of seriously harming yourself or someone else.

Yes! Online therapy (referred to as “teletherapy”) has been heavily researched and studies show that it is just as effective as in-person therapy. We still get to see each other and personally connect; just over video. There are also unique benefits to online therapy, many of which my clients have told me they appreciate, such as not having to deal with traffic or parking, not having additional commute time, more flexibility with scheduling, and being able to have sessions wherever is most convenient for them.

If you are wondering whether online therapy is a good fit for you, let’s schedule a free 15-minute consultation and you can decide for yourself. Many people are pleasantly surprised at how much they prefer it to in-person therapy.

Zaray can only work with clients that are physically located in New York at the time of any session.

Relational therapy (2 or more people) is $200 for 50-minute sessions
Individual therapy is $175 for 50-minute sessions

Zaray offers limited reduced fee spots for those whom her fee would be prohibitive of engaging in therapy with her. Inquire for more information.

Payment may be made by credit or debit card payment, which is due at or before the time of our session. Typically, credit or debit card payment is set up via IVY PAY, a credit/debit card payment service specifically designed for licensed mental health therapists which is HIPAA compliant. IVY PAY is a convenient payment option which securely records a debit/credit card and allows for automatic payment prior to our sessions.

In other words, payment is super easy.

Zaray does not take any insurance. She can provide a super bill for clients to submit to their insurance for reimbursement. However, many insurance providers will not reimburse services with an associate counselor.

Please contact your specific insurance provider for more information. 

Zaray is a Limited Permit Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT-LP P140259) in New York which means that she has completed her formal education and received her master’s degree in marriage and family therapy and is in the process of gaining the necessary clinical experience and supervision required to become a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT).

In order to qualify for licensure therapists must accrue 1,500 hours of supervised post-degree professional experience.

Zaray is supervised by Lauren Consul, an incredibly experienced therapist that specializes in sex and relationship therapy. Lauren is a licensed marriage and family therapist in New York (LMFT 002537).

Working with an associate essentially means that you get support from not one, but two, wonderful therapists; directly from Zaray and indirectly from Lauren Consul via their weekly supervision. Piyola is also able to offer a reduced rate from Lauren’s full fee.

You can verify Zaray’s limited permit registration here, by entering her full name “Zaray Dratch” under “Permittee Name”.

You can verify Zaray’s supervisor’s license by entering “Lauren Consul” under “Licensee Name”.

Payment may be made by credit or debit card payment, which is due at or before the time of our session. Typically, credit or debit card payment is set up via IvyPay, a credit/debit card payment service specifically designed for licensed mental health therapists which is HIPAA compliant. IvyPay is a convenient payment option which securely records a debit/credit card and allows for automatic payment prior to our sessions. 

Zaray accepts a limited number of reduced fee clients her caseload at any given time for clients where her current fee would otherwise make therapy with her inaccessible. Inquire with Zaray to discuss this potential option and to see if she has a reduced fee spot currently available.

Once you book a session time, that time is reserved specifically for you. Zaray requires at least 24-hours notice to reschedule or cancel a session. If you cancel or reschedule with less than 24-hours notice, you will still be responsible and charged for the full session fee.

Your session time is dedicated and reserved for you. If you are late for a session you may join it at any time within your designated time period, but our session will still end at the scheduled time and you will still be responsible for the entirety of the regular session fee.

You have the right to receive a “Good Faith Estimate” explaining how much your medical care will cost.

Under the law, health care providers need to give patients who don’t have insurance or who are not using insurance an estimate of the bill for medical items and services.

  • You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total expected cost of any non-emergency items or services. This includes related costs like medical tests, prescription drugs, equipment, and hospital fees.
  • Make sure your health care provider gives you a Good Faith Estimate in writing at least 1 business day before your medical service or item.
  • You can also ask your healthcare provider, and any other provider you choose, for a Good Faith Estimate before you schedule an item or service.
  • If you receive a bill that is at least $400 more than your Good Faith Estimate, you can dispute the bill.
  • Make sure to save a copy or picture of your Good Faith Estimate.

For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate, visit www.cms.gov/nosurprises or call (800) 368-1019.

You deserve relationships, and a sex life, that feel honest, secure, and aligned with who you are.

Ready to take the next step? Schedule a free consultation to see how therapy with Zaray can support your growth, healing, and connection.

Schedule a Consultation

Please contact Zaray for a free 15-minute consultation to discuss your therapy needs. Please keep in mind Zaray can only work with clients residing in New York.

Schedule an Appointment

About Me

My expertise is in relational intelligence and helping people build the secure and fulfilling relationships they desire.

Therapy Services

My work is focused on healing inner child wounds, repairing relational bonds, and helping people work through their physical and emotional challenges in order to improve their sex lives.

Surviving to Thriving After Infidelity

My retreats are designed to combine the benefits of physical and emotional relaxation with rejuvenation focused activities, connection, and skill building to help you deal with what has been weighing on you most.

Support Groups

Connecting with a group of people who feel like you do, led by a licensed therapist, can help you feel less isolated, judged, and lonely. 

Free Gratitude Journal Download

In preparation for the release of my full-length gratitude journal for couples, I am giving away a downloadable preview copy of The Bound Journal, 7-Days of Gratitude to those that sign up to my newsletter

The link to your download will be sent to the email you use to subscribe to my Great Full Days newsletter.